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I heard these words a long time ago (“The enemy is en-e-me”) by Bishop T.D. Jakes. I didn’t understand it back then, but I have come to grips with its meaning.
I have come to believe those words.
Now the challenge is getting others to understand that their battle is within them.
Most people spend their time blaming their boss, their spouse, their family and friends for their life being where it is.
The problem you face with this thought process is: you become a victim.
Why?
Because you now believe your destiny is out of your hands. There is nothing more damaging to a person, than to believe their life is out of their hands. I am not talking religion and for those that want to argue that point, read closely: you have a “free will”. This means you have the freedom of choice, which means you have the freedom to control your destiny. Your decisions will decide your destiny.
What am I getting to?
You have to spend more time with you. Get in touch with the inside of you. Allow the energy, vibration that has been placed in you to do its part in your life. It is your GPS system. Trust it because it will never lead you astray.
If it feels wrong, don’t do it. Do not allow others beliefs to be your guide. People were not placed here to guide you. That doesn’t mean people are not placed in your life to share information that you may use along your journey. You just have to take the information in, filter it through your system and decide if the data is leading you where you want to go.
Trying to be someone else or following someone elses roadmap (they created for you) will always keep you unfulfilled. We are all born to be individuals. So dig within you, find you and let him or her shine. If you don’t, the world is being cheated out of your uniqueness.
It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. Its just my opinion.
Your Partner in Success and Life
Ron “Simplified” Myers
I read a book and received what I believe to be the “Most Valuable Lesson” a person can learn. I wish I remembered the name of the book so I could share it.
The lesson was: “everything will either die or break depending on what it is”.
Looking at that statement you would say – “Yeah, and”.
Well the book recommends that you break it or let it die in advance. The reason for that is so you can go through the pain “NOW”. The great part is you get to come back to reality and realize it hasn’t occurred yet.
This will allow you to appreciate the things and people in your life.
I will share with you from experience; it changed my relationship with one of my relatives. They are pessimistic.
What do I mean? Any subject that comes up, they will look for the negative or at least the opposite of you think or say. This person says that they do it to see both sides of subjects. I could believe that if it happened every now and then, but not on every topic. As a matter of fact, we could agree on a particular subject and this person will still try to find something wrong just to get a negative conversation going.
Anyway, one day my wife was busy, so I was trying to figure out what I was going to do for the day. I thought about this individual above, but remembered they were out of town for the weekend. Then I thought about the fact that if something happened to them and I was in a position that I would never be able to visit them again, how would I feel?
By the way, I was contemplating at that time in my life whether to cut this person out of my life. I was working on building my own business and the last thing I needed was a pessimistic person in my path (haven’t we been told this by all the gurus – cut negative people out of your life?).
Well picturing a life without this person, created instant pain within. I realized the impact this person had in my life. I recognized the fact that you don’t have to agree with everything about a person. Neither one of us are right. We are just, “who we are choosing to be”.
Our relationship has been great ever since that day.
By the way, that day also helped me with my phrase that you will see in my videos, blogs and most things that I do and I will close with it here: “It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion”. What am I sharing with you here? “You ain’t right. You ain’t wrong. You are living your life through your opinions”. Cut people some slack.
Use this exercise and start to truly enjoy your life and those people and things that are in it.
Your Partner in Success and Life
Ron “Simplified” Myers
